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What To Do When Your Girlfriend Pushes You Away

Has your girlfriend just pushed you away? If so, this article will show you why this happens and what you can do to fix this problem. Your girlfriend will push you away at some point in the relationship, this is to be expected. The only question is, how do you deal with it?

What To Do When Your Girlfriend Pushes You Away


Hi Weird,
I’ve been dating my girlfriend now for about 12 months. I’m 37 and my girlfriend is 23. I’m not joking when I say that this has been one of the most difficult relationships of my life.

I’ve dated a lot of women in my life and I’m not shy when it comes to going out and meeting beautiful women. But my current girlfriend is definitely the most beautiful girl I’ve ever dated and also the most difficult to deal with. (The more you value her the more likely you are to put up with her nonsense and put her on a pedestal.)

I’m an accomplished guy. I make a good income and stay in great shape, working out almost every day. I also feel like I know how to handle women pretty well (most of the time), but for whatever reason my girlfriend keeps pushing me away. (Check your behavior right before she pushes you away. What were you doing in the event leading up to this?)

Most of the time things are going great. The sex is great and she is really into me. But I’ve noticed that she never really compliments me and tests me a lot. This usually happens once or twice a month and she’ll push me away on a regular basis, almost like she doesn’t want to be in a relationship with me. This drives me crazy every time she does this and I end up having to call her to try and find out what’s going on.
Sometimes she doesn’t even pick up her phone and then she always says that she’s busy. I’ve told her how much this hurts me when she does this and how much I love her, but she keeps on doing this. (Your girlfriend obviously feels that you value her a lot more than she values you. The more you keep acting this way, the more she’ll push you away and feel like you’re lower value than her.)
If you can give me any advice or help me to understand what my girlfriend is thinking and why she is doing this I would really appreciate it.


Thanks,
Unknown


To fix this problem it’s important to understand why this guy’s girlfriend is pushing him away.

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